Penis enlargement – Women's View Point?

To have a long, fat and firm penis is a fantasy for most men. However, the fact is that there are as many shapes and sizes of the organ as there are men. I feel that the obsession comes from watching porn stars show off their large assets. However, a penis is not a car and bigger is not always better. When it comes to women the personality of the man and that of the penis matter a lot more than the size of the organ. In other words what matters is, what the man can do in bed with the penis and otherwise which matters to a woman much more than size. Men get sexual satisfaction when they have an orgasm, and the top one inch of the penis is the most important part of a man’s entire sexuality. However, a woman is a sex organ from head to toe. Every part of a woman needs stimulation during love making. The biggest mistake men make when they get a chance is to reach between the legs as fast as they can. I guess we men do this because that is what we want the woman to do to us and women will usually not reach for the penis, till they have spent a lot of time getting pleasure in every other possible way and there is nothing else to do but let the man penetrate and finish it off. A man given the chance will have sex in 10 minutes flat, which is quiet unlikely for a woman. If a woman is doing this it is not for sexual reasons but due to other considerations.

So, my advice to every man is to forget about the size and worry more about the personality. However, having a nice and firm erection is an asset and a bit of size enhancement is possible with massage of the penis, exercises like Sexual Qigong, “Pranayam” and giving up porn and masturbation addiction. Massaging the penis is simple, all you need to do is masturbate but hold back just before you ejaculate, use a lot of oil for the massage. Also try to give up ejaculation outside the vagina, like in oral sex or sex between the breasts.

You should also try to develop the muscles which help you control ejaculation. These, are about the same muscles which help you stop urinating mid-stream. To strengthen these muscles try stopping and starting urine flow a few times every time to go. Also do the same contractions even when not urinating. Try doing it 5 or 10 times daily. Once this set of muscles become strong you will be able to last longer during intercourse. Some people can have a full orgasm without ejaculating.

All of the above will result in better control and a healthier and fuller erection. When you have a fuller erection, you actually gain about half to 3 quarters of an inch in length.

Broadly there are three penis types, long and thin (A), thick and short (B) and thick and long(C). Also there are three types of vaginas, very narrow (1), very open (2) and deep (3). The following combinations can be formed, A1, A2, A3, B1, B2, B3, C1, C2, C3. Kama Sutra has described in great detail the nine combinations that can be formed and which combinations are the best. However, when there is a mismatched pair like A2 or B3, sexual pleasure can be a bit of a problem. However, if you understand the woman’s needs and are creative with your technique every combination works. It is less of an issue for the man. But for women usually the right penis type is more important. Most men would want to have a thick and long penis. But that is a male fantasy. This penis type will usually hurt a woman than give her pleasure, if the man is not careful and sensitive. So don’t be obsessed by penis size but try to become a more creative lover and try new positions. Be happy with what you have and try using it better.