Wednesday 10 April 2013

Coitus interruptus, Onanism and Masturbation.

The three words are used interchangeably by some. However, the three are quite different. There is only one thing in common; in every case ejaculation takes place outside the vagina. In this discussion I will not look at the ethical or the “sin” aspect of any of the acts. Coitus interruptus is the act of pulling out during intercourse and ejaculating outside the vagina. This is practiced by some as a way of birth control, but it may not be completely effective, sperm may slip by in pre ejaculation fluid. So there could be risk of conception, like it could happen if you ejaculated thru the panties of your partner.

Masturbation is the act when you are usually not with a woman and stimulate yourself and thereby have an orgasm, and ejaculate. There could be variants to the act of masturbation. You could ask your girlfriend to give you a hand job or a stimulate you or orally. You could do it between her breasts or her navel. All these can be fun but at best are modern day perversions. I have done it between a woman’s legs, been given a hand job while watching a movie. I have done it thru panties. When I was very young I have rubbed myself to a full orgasm thru my girlfriend’s clothes. You could even do it in the anus. All these acts could be clubbed under masturbation. As long as you do not penetrate the woman and ejaculate it should be called masturbation. Sexual intercourse or love making is when you penetrate a woman and finish off inside her, delivering all your sperm inside to potentially fertilize her. The real objective of sexual intercourse is not pleasure but procreation. Pleasure is the candy nature gives you, so that the human race does not come to an end.

Onanism finds its origins in the bible. Onan, the son of Judah married his brother’s widow in accordance with Jewish law. He was to plant his seed in her and deliver a son for his brother. Onan married his sister-in-law, slept with her but would not plant his seed in her. He would spill his seed on the ground, because he did not want to give her a child. Now this, as described in the bible is coitus interruptus, but is a highly debated topic. There are as many interpretations to Onan’s story as there are thinking men. My purpose here is not to bring another interpretation to the table, but to look at it from Homeopathic medical angle. During my study of Homeopathy, I found that Homeopaths use the term to describe any sexual act where the ejaculation takes place outside the vagina. So Homeopaths include Masturbation and coitus interruptus within the purview of Onanism. In Homeopathy there are serious consequences of Onanism. It can lead to serious emotional, psychological and physical damage. In N.M.Choudhuri’s (MD) “A study of Materia Medica” He writes in symptoms of the remedy Staphisagria: “Staphisagria is the premier remedy of the 20th century because it is called for the premier vice of the present time, we mean the evil habit of Onanism. All the melancholy symptoms that appear in the train of this evil habit find, as we shall very soon see, a great help in Staphisagria. These patients look abashed; they cannot look you straight in the face; a guilty conscience is constantly reminding them of their despicable treason against law of nature. Their countenance, which but for their filthy habit might have been full of life and health and happiness, is indicative of total wreckage. The nose is pointed and the eyes are sunken with blue rings around them. Not a ray of hope, not a ray of ambition lighten their brows and their whole expression is one of solid darkness, apathy and indifference. Their memory too has suffered from the great drain on the vital fluid. After short mental work they complain of a sensation of weight between the eyes. In a short while they so completely forget all that they have studied that they are scarcely able to recall them even after long reflection. We very often come across such sad cases of young men who, through this pernicious habit, get transformed into blank idiocy and stand sorely in need of remedies like Staphisagria. Their sensitiveness is so highly strained that it is a matter of extreme difficulty to live peaceably with them. They cannot brook any slight and when no slight is meant they will construe other people’s dealings as indicative of such and feel miserable over the supposed slight”. In the case of the remedy named China he says “China finds its usefulness in the ailments of the male sexual organs, especially in impotence (Erectile Dysfunction) from over indulgence, and in other consequences of excessive or long continued seminal losses”. In case of Aurum Metallicum Doctor Choudhuri says “It is used epididymitis, orchitis, balanitis and induration of testes…. Frequent discharge of prostatic fluid the effect of onanism, while associated with settled melancholia and suicidal mania, point to Autum Met. as their sure remedy”.

If we look at the Homeopathic view closely, the Homeopath is not talking about the ethical or religious issues he is commenting upon simple loss of vitality due to excessive loss of ejaculate. It takes the body a lot of work to generate semen and sperm. Ayurveda says that a drop is equal to eight drops of blood. So, when you ejaculate 5ml of semen it is equal to about 40ml of blood. So if you do that every day for a year you lose material worth 15 litres of blood. If you are producing more semen and sperm you will lose more. It is not rare for a man to do this for a few years especially when he is young, I have done it every day for many years when I was younger and am paying the price.

So how does ejaculating within the vagina help. First, it will never be possible for a woman to have sex every day for 365 days a year, whereas an addict may masturbate up to 5 times a day. She is going to have to take time off for various reasons, unlike a man. Also, if you were not in a relationship you would not go looking for a mate every day. You try any scenario and if you decided to ejaculate within a woman every time you could not possibly lose as much ejaculate as you could by other means. Whichever way you look at it, the point is to save as much of the vital fluid as you can and let it help restore your own lost vitality instead of wasting it.

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